Wow, that's terrible. I have some chipping off on the underside of the hood, but I figured it was due to painting a seam (paint is always thinner and more brittle at the seams and edges). Other than that it's great paint! Ford paint jobs are light years ahead of my Subaru WRX, which was crap from the day I bought it (otherwise mostly a bulletproof car).
I love the White Platinum Tri-Coat so much I own two cars with it... my ST and a 2011 Flex Ecoboost.
Sorry you had all these problems... and if your dealership was that helpful with the paint chip on the trunk, I would definitely consider it a keeper. The worst part of owning a Ford is their utter crap dealership network. I love their cars, but loathe their dealership service network. I've found exactly one decent, honest, and competent Ford service department in the 15 years I've owned Fords.