Ford and Chrysler are notorious for having these issues.
McGuard makes really good stock replacements, along with a newer company TPR(TaperPro). I've had a host of lugs in the past, and for stock-looking chromes, either of these are good.
As far as alternatives, stay away from the cheaper Chinese options(unless you want to replace them once a year). I liked my Rays lugs, but the pricetag may be a lot for some. Muteki makes a good product as well as Gorilla.
If I'm buying another set for my car currently, I'm looking into titanium stuff.... but i'm crazy like that... lol