Ok. Success. Not sure what was different. My fog connectors today didn’t have any white plugs in them so when I hooked them up they came right on. Maybe they fell out when I was messing with them this weekend. Anyway, after taking the headlights out 5 times tonight to get them adjusted how I think I want them, I’m calling it good till something else happens. I recommend adjusting with the yellow fogs on (I had actually forgotten they had yellow with all the trial and error I went thru). I thought I had a good low adjustment for white fogs and put it all back together and then I accidentally turned on the yellow which were pointed at the ground in front of the car. So, headlights back off to turn the screws to get the yellow more in line.
If anyone has questions, I think I have it all figured out by now!