... at this point Ford refused to work on my car any more, and just kept telling me the light is on because of “all the mods on the car.” ...
Yes not unusual for techs not to work on altered vehicles as it's not exactly unusual that backyard engineering creates issues; both immediate and/or long-term. I let a prior engine run cold because of the reliability and performance benefit and it took
years before the consequences of that decision became obvious. Something as simple as misrouting, not properly securing or using an "add-a-circuit" product can have unintended or serious consequences at some unknown point down the road.
Take the other bolt from the MAP to the hardware store and match it up; depth/thread/diameter. Store clerk will help. The smaller stores like ACE are better for this.
Does the code change when the IAT sensor is unplugged? What does it change to?
What is that second code? It may be related. Don't ignore it. Do they share a harness? Any abrasion, heat or other damage? Does the code change when unplugging the sensor?
View: https://youtu.be/u-2UDKpdonk
Oil on the IAT sensor doesn't sound normal? The sensor's housing and tube will be just as contaminated and that contamination may quickly spread.
Manufacturers of N/A engines typically use either MAP or MAF but not both. Does the FiST employ MAF in addition to the MAP or is that just IAT? The fact that it's four wire does suggest more than IAT. Prior experiences suggest MAF will be completely useless if contaminated in the slightest. Looking at how your altered intake is routed, may provide clues as to how this is occurring and what needs to be done to truly address this. Are the turbo seals good? PCV in my prior vehicle was routed well downstream of the MAF and IAT so it was impossible for it to contaminate the delicate MAF or skew IAT readings.
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